Now a day there is all these ideals that man an women has of each other, man look at super models an think we should all be zeros. O but ladies where just as bad, looking at man that are nice an fit. We have this idea of the perfect man or woman we want and either wait all out life for him/her or we try to chance out partner to fit that mold he want for them. We should remember the resons why we wanted to be with them in the first place. an love them for how they are.